Family Hesitation About virtual jobs

Working from home at a virtual job is no longer a new concept, but what if your spouse or family balk at the idea?  This can come from a misunderstanding of what it means to work from home, or from someone seeing you sit in front of your PC everyday in your pj's.  The proof of whether your job is legitimate lies in the payments you do or don't receive for your work, and how being at home effects you and your family.  But what if your spouse or family is having a hard time getting used to this new idea? How can you smooth the way?

First, many have gone before you.  It's possible to find articles about, and biographies of, people who have had great success working at home.  You might want to see how many of those you can find as some basis for your desire to stay at home instead of commuting.  Also, you could do some part time or freelance work.  When it produces money, it's possible your family will soften to the idea.  Let your family see the online services you are using to get work, or the websites of companies that you are working virtually for.  This will lend credibility.  List all the good reasons why you should do this.  More time with kids, less gas usage, saving on lunches out, less stress.  Demonstrate what you do or show a finished project to your family so they can see exactly what you do.

Most fears stem from worries about money or concerns about time. Again, the proof will be in the payments you receive, and the time you are still able to spend with your partner and family, which should actually increase.  If you and your partner have established a good financial system, you will already know how much you are responsible for.  If you are earning it all with virtual work, good for you!  If not, look into supplementing with a part-time job elsewhere.

You can pave the way be preparing your spouse and family for the changes they can expect.  For example, talk to them about how you intend to schedule your time, and show them how this will be of benefit.  You can also prepare them for giving you an extra hand while you get yourself established as a virtual worker.  Maybe the kids can help with the laundry while you are preparing that spreadsheet.  Can your spouse and children help you with your work?  Can they sort papers or file?  Being involved will help them take pride in what you're doing.

Most times, families are thrilled to have one or both parents at home.  But when they hesitate, be prepared to reassure them that your virtual job is a good thing for everyone.

Posted:Monday, September 03, 2007