Edited: August 2023
Unhappy at work? The key to navigating the corporate jungle isn’t always about skill sets, degrees, or professional networks — it’s often about attitude. It’s the lens through which you perceive and respond to your work environment, and it can drastically impact not just your professional success, but also your overall happiness and well-being. If you’ve been feeling discontent or unhappy at work, it may be time to reassess and tweak your attitude!
It’s not about faking positivity, but about embracing a more constructive outlook that empowers you to adapt, grow, and flourish. This change in perspective can create a ripple effect, fostering a healthier work environment, improved professional relationships, and even a more successful career trajectory. Let’s explore why it’s essential to adjust our attitudes when we’re unhappy at work and how to go about it.
Attitude Affects Everything. Your Job is No Exception.
A positive attitude in the workplace can accelerate your career. A negative attitude can ruin it. If you’re unhappy at work, here are some of our favorite tips for maintaining a positive attitude at work:
1. Remember, You Have a Choice.
Your attitude is your choice, and no one else’s. We’ve all had hard times, frustrations, hurt feelings, and discouraging conversations at work. The important thing to keep in mind is how you respond to situations determines your attitude. And the good news is, you get to choose how you respond! Your inner dialogue has the power to fuel your outlook on things. Next time you see yourself going down a road of negativity, change your inner dialogue to a positive tone.
2. Watch the Words You Use.
Once they are uttered, words cannot be taken back. If you find yourself in a situation where you’re saying disparaging or judgmental things about coworkers, stop and change your words. The path to success is paved by what you say and what others hear from you.
3. Smile More.
When someone asks how you’re doing, see if you can respond with something positive, even if you’re not feeling positive that moment. By responding with a cheery answer and a smile, your attitude can be transformed. And you can even be reminded that there are good things to focus on. If you’ve noticed, when someone smiles at you, it’s pretty hard not to return the gesture. Sharing positive energy helps everyone’s mood improve around the office.
4. Get Some Exercise.
Few things can help alleviate your frustration faster than exercise. Take all of those feelings of frustration out on the treadmill, the dance floor, or in the weight room. You will be surprised at how quickly your attitude can be improved with a little sweat and energy exertion.
5. Avoid the Negative.
Sometimes, it’s not your job that makes you unhappy at work, but some of the people. Stay away from people who complain! The negativity that they project is contagious. Surround yourself with people who make you feel good. When you’re forced to work with someone who has a bad attitude, focus on the work — not the person. Communicate only about work, and don’t let them drag you down into their world of negativity.
6. Learn from Past Mistakes.
If you’ve had some rough times and made mistakes, there’s no time like now to take an inventory of what you have learned. Stop thinking about how and why you made the mistake and move on. Success doesn’t depend on how many times you fall, but your attitude when you get up.
Concluding Thoughts: Turning the Tables When You’re Unhappy at Work
Having a positive attitude doesn’t mean living in a fantasy world. It’s only natural for life’s daily frustrations to get to you. That’s okay! The trick to maintaining a positive attitude is allowing yourself to feel the negative and then letting go of those feelings and focusing on the good. It takes practice, but making a conscious effort not to get bogged down with the deadlines and stress of work life will help you achieve the happiness you deserve.
Now that you’ve discovered the power of a positive outlook, it’s time to take action. The first step towards a happier and more fulfilling professional life starts with you. We invite you to join our self-paced online course, “Work from Home Mindfully.” This course is designed to provide you with the tools you need to recalibrate your perspective, enhance your productivity, and create a balanced and fulfilling remote work environment. Because change doesn’t happen overnight, we’re here to guide you on this journey of self-discovery and growth. Don’t remain unhappy at work — take our course now and start building a healthier work mindset today.
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